Hi John, thank you so much for your appreciation and query.
The possibility of melting the icy hearts is very much possible. Why everyone is not doing it? Because for pure love to shine forth, ego has to take a back seat and ego, for sure, does not like this. It fights to maintain its identity.
Yes, when witnessing happens, ego dissolve and you become detached from it. Witnessing creates a distance between the self and the ego, for this reason, it becomes easy to see through all the dramas. It is great to know that witnessing is happening.
The fight between the self continues till this "I "completely dissolve. The root cause of this fight is the separation which is not in total experience yet.
If you have more questions, feel free to bombard me.
Loads of Love,
Ruchi 💖